lifestyle

This is the most emotional introduction on my site, it goes deeper. I don’t want to give the lifestyle section a clear direction, it’s a place where we can talk about anything and everything and where you can ask away. I’ll see how it develops and try to be as broad as ever with the themes I put out there.
A couple of years ago, I had the privilege of meeting a girl…well a woman who was going through a divorce and hit rock bottom. Something urged me to take her in, talk to her, be there for her, support her. We call it instant connection today. She has become an integral part of my life, a close friend, although I hardly see her. But we talk on the phone every single day. And she is one of the people in my life that support me unconditionally…and tell me constantly I should have become a shrink because I do an amazing job in comforting, hearing out and dishing out advice left and right. Did I pick my Economics Major wrong? It could be. But if this blogging picks up, I just might change paths☺
The thing is, I used to have so many friends. Some are still with me to this day, we grew up together and I love them dearly (my Romania crew, always with me in my heart), some I picked along the way and these are the ones that go through life with me every single day (hello my Viennese besties) and some I’ve lost over the years, big let-downs. And you see, all these experiences have made me who I am today. I’ve struggled to accept myself, my body, my positive and negative sides, the struggles my family has faced and is still facing but most importantly, I’ve learned to give to the people that deserve it.
Same with my relationships. My 20s have been a rollercoaster of emotions, feelings of love and betrayal, flirts, serious relationships and temporary flings. And I’m here to share some of it with you. The ones that got away, the ones that were never meant to be, the ones that are long gone (and it’s better that way) and what each one of them has thought me. But most of all, how all this has made me stronger.
Today I can say, each of my friends shares a story, a bond with me and each one has contributed to the Flami I am today.
And my family. An integral part of my existence, the light in my eyes, the reason I am where I am today.